Showing posts with label Vitality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Vitality. Show all posts

Sunday, May 21, 2023

Flavor Vitality Enthusiasm Zest

 If life were predictable it would cease to be life, and be without flavor  Eleanor Roosevelt


                                           



I want my life to have flavor, vitality, enthusiasm.  Not just the food that I eat but the life that I lead.  I don’t want to be on auto pilot.  I want to be engaged in whatever it is I am doing.  Driving, petting my dog, listening to music, washing dishes.  I don’t want to just be moving to the next task.  I want to be aware.  To feel and really be present with all my senses. 

Let me not half slumber through this day.  Let me be awake, alive and taste every moment.  All the flavors, sweet, salty bitter.  They all have their purpose.  If nothing else for contrast.  It is only with contrast that we see more clearly, we see better because of the differences not in spite of them.

Sooooo... the big question, how do I make sure my life has flavor?  I think it is to be more active for one thing.  Don't hesitate, don't always think or over think.  Get out and be physical.  Be IN my body.  Walk, go different places.  Eat at the table and pay attention to my food. Eat different food, not just the same old.  Spend more time listening to music, try different genres.  Read different books.  Talk to people and really listen.   In looking at this list the thing is to use my senses... Look, Listen, Touch, Taste, Smell...  If I do those things and spend less time in my head and not numbing myself, it will give me a richer life.  An inner life is important, but it cannot be at the expense of a full meaningful life.

One of my values is creativity and that includes curiosity.  Try some new things or at the very least do the old things differently.  I can do that. I can challenge myself.  It is through these things: presence, challenge, curiosity, engagement, movement and my senses that I will find the zest I'm looking for. 

 

Sunday, January 29, 2023

Living a Life of Vitality

 So much of what we take in is about bigger, better, and more.  But for some of us-small, simple, and quiet are all we need.  It's okay to be happy with a calm life.  Erica Layne



I have put hours of thought into what it takes to live a life of happiness.  Being content is the truest measure of happiness for me.   There are many things that add to the quality of my life.  At the very core are these ten things (although coffee is number 11-for sure)

  • Spirit-connection with the divine
  • Connection with family and friends
  • Health-diet, exercise, sleep
  • Secure Finances
  • Dogs 
  • Books
  • Cozy organized home and beautiful garden
  • Reliable vehicle
  • Solitude       
  • Accomplishment-the need to accomplish a little something every day

     

Now, to live a truly engaged vital life I need the above a few additional things: 


Coffee

A cozy bed (with really good sheets)

Sunlight

A daily Walk

A glass of wine

A comfortable chair

Nature-be outside, plan hikes, garden, kayak

Beauty-home, flowers

Music-listen to new genres

Something to look forward to-plan

Learning-classes, writing class, philosophy class, religion class, pod casts, audio books adventure, tap dance?

Travel-just a little 

Good food-cook new things

Gardening-growing things

Contributing/ volunteer

Socialize-join a book club, go to plays and community events

Age with grace, release what makes sense, embrace everything you can


Then, and this is what is more aspirational, is who I want to be:  

Be intentional-know what my intentions are behind my actions

Be intuitive-know and follow my intuition

Be Creative-paint, writing, blog, crochet, pine needle baskets

Be kind to myself and others, non-judgmental

Be fully present (not numb) eating, TV, scrolling

Be interested and engaged 

Be informed-listen to the news, read social topics

Be enthusiastic

Be comfortable in my own skin-confident, accepting myself

 Be authentic

 Be accepting of others-unconditional acceptance

 Be optimistic

 

 

 

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