Showing posts with label choice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label choice. Show all posts

Sunday, May 28, 2023

Energy

 If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration   Nikola Tesla

                                              


 

As one who has studied energy work in the Healing Touch program.  I think of our bodies as one giant battery.  We gain, store and discharge energy according to the situation.  Energy loss and gain are very individualized.  Some gain energy from solitude while another person might gain energy from socializing.  Introverts/Extroverts.

I believe we can all agree that living things humans, plants and animals are composed of energy, that is an easy concept.  It becomes a bit more challenging to wrap our heads around solid forms of matter like rocks and earth have energy too.  Stretching our heads even further-thoughts have energy.

On this life walk I wanted to be conscious of physical, emotional and spiritual energy and see if I could corelate energy levels to the effects of varied situations.  Physical: exercise, food, sleep and water.  Emotional: solitude, socialization, isolation. Spiritual: creativity, boredom, TV, social media.

The effects of these things positive and negative are going to be positive for some and negative for others and may be both.  TV for example.  I find TV relaxing in small doses for defined time periods.  Binge watching TV for hours on end I find depressing, and it decreases my energy levels. Gardening is a wonderful energy booster for me.  It ticks so many boxes: solitude, creativity, accomplishment, exercise and beauty.

As a confirmed introvert I find I must have solitude to recharge my battery.  Generally, social situations and large crowds in particular are energetic drains for me.  The flip side of that, I have found, with the pandemic, retirement and living alone is that I need people.  I really do.  I find myself getting lonely.  Which is so odd to say as a self-professed introvert.  That said I need people in small frequencies and small doses, but I do need them-much to my surprise.  

Charges: solitude, nature, healthy food, limited TV, music, creativity, trying new things, beauty, people in small doses, meaningful conversation, learning, exercise, trying something new, drinking water, good healthy food in human amounts, petting my dog.  So many of these things are easy to do and well within my power of choice.  

Drains:  Noise, clutter, negativity, too many people or the wrong people, cocktail party meaningless chit chat, no nutrient food or too much food, making up a story about what other people are thinking of me or of some horrible event that could happen, doing the same thing over and over, phone scrolling, actual crisis such as the health of a family member.  There will always be times when drains occur but looking at this list. So many are actionable or can be limited.  Those times when I can't take action or limit my exposure, I will ask for Grace.



Sunday, January 15, 2023

Choice

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing:  the last of the human freedoms-to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.  Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning


We all make choices every day.  Most of the time the choices are small.  Rice Krispies or Corn Flakes? Can I let my hair go one more day without a wash?  Yes or no?

There is a tendency to only look at the big choices in our lives.  I am a mother.  I am a nurse.  These are the fork in the road choices.  These choices do define us.

Yet, I can’t help but wonder if it is the small choices that make a difference at the core of who we are.  Maybe the small choices are not a fork in the road as much as a gradual curve.  The result is the same, it changes the direction of our lives they are just not as dramatic, and we don't use our turn signal.

Choosing to take the vitamin.  Going for a walk instead of taking to the couch. Saying something kind instead of saying nothing at all.  These are the small choices that form the curve in the path.

For the big choices we put pen to paper, listing pros and cons.  We solicit the opinions of others.  We Google. Yet the small choices don’t always break the surface of our consciousness.  Maybe we could make the small decisions with more intention?  Would that send our life in a different direction?  I think it might.


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